My STORY
I founded Beyond the illusion in 2020 after emerging from the dark night of my soul, inspired by humanity’s collective awakening shift.
As an intuitive and energetically sensitive person, I was feeling the purge.
I decided to express myself without worrying about what others may think. When we let go of the concern for the views of others, we can embrace our true selves.
meet Natalie
OWNER
With my natural insight, I can assist you in discovering your true essence, leading you away from the agonising hold of narcissistic individuals.
Discovering your essence involves disentangling yourself from all that binds you to a narcissist. It requires uncovering your innate nature and living it without constraints. It means knowing who you genuinely are without the corrupt perspectives imposed by abusers. We can connect with our innermost essence by freeing ourselves from darkness and agony.
The process is occurring both individually and collectively, with increasing numbers of people becoming aware of their true selves and breaking free from the cycle of abuse. Life will persist in presenting identical situations until we elevate our level of consciousness and choose to explore new experiences.
Narcissistic abuse is the end of innocence.
Experiencing a life-altering event can shatter our naivety and trust while also gifting us the ability to discern. Once evil reveals itself to us, there is no going back. It serves as a finality that allows us to see people for who they are rather than who they may pretend to be.
During the year 2018, I embarked on the challenging journey of healing from narcissistic abuse. A spur-of-the-moment decision led me to board a plane one morning after enduring post-separation abuse and travel thousands of miles away from the narcissist. The night before, I had an epiphany about my future if I failed to sever ties and save my soul.
It was hard to heal, but it would have been harder not to.
Facing the trauma head-on was the only option once I decided to cut the cord. This experience was soul-destroying, with no option to return to the previous state of being.
Living with an indescribable emptiness and mind-body disconnection was a result of severe CPTSD and Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome. It led to the fragmentation of the mind, psyche, and soul. The abuse suffered was from a covert narcissist psychopath. Rebuilding oneself, piece by piece, revealed a truth beyond the illusion of narcissism.
Every time I stepped into the big unknown, I found internal validation.
Your best defence against narcissists is internal validation. They manipulate you by making you dependent on their approval for self-worth. They are aware that people seek validation and use it to their advantage. Choosing to have no contact with a narcissist means that you are no longer outsourcing your sense of approval and are starting to find it within yourself. Stepping away is the first step to valuing yourself.
Narcissistic abuse occurs because of the unconscious mind. The narcissist reflects the unhealed parts of ourselves, and we fall for it until they break us. We don’t question our reality until we have to. I realised that narcissistic abuse wasn’t a new experience for me. It has happened multiple times in my life. I had to disentangle myself from it and rediscover who I am at my core.
I didn’t know I was walking the path of healing through conscious awareness.
During my recovery from narcissistic abuse, I had no clear plan. However, upon reflection, I realised there were moments in my healing process that helped me to regain my mental, physical, and spiritual well-being. Healing from this type of abuse was akin to following a recipe with the right ingredients necessary to achieve wholeness.
Now, I want to guide you along the same path that I took towards healing from narcissistic abuse. By combining these elements, I put myself back together again. As a result of conscious awareness and introspection, I discovered what it takes to recover from this unique pain. I now assist other survivors in achieving the same level of recovery.
No matter how broken you feel, healing and transformation are possible.
Narcissistic abuse destroys an individual’s emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual well-being. Surviving it is a testament to one’s strength and resilience. Narcissists systematically dismantle the psyche of their victims until there is no sense of self or stability remaining. Yet, when survivors integrate their trauma and rebuild themselves, they become unbreakable. Surviving narcissistic abuse requires a warrior’s spirit and strength to persevere through the darkness.
As a survivor, I have made it my mission to denounce the narcissistic and psychopathic abuse that controls our societal perceptions and has led us to global totalitarianism.
The way to change it is through conscious awareness.
The illusions people live in will begin to reveal themselves through conscious awareness. Denial is shattered through brutal force when what one sees cannot be unseen. Human consciousness is evolving beyond ignorance and limitation, and the process is already happening. It’s a time when the darkness is coming to light.
Don’t let the early days of recovery or being stuck along your journey keep you in darkness.
My purpose is to provide continuous support and direction, demonstrating that there is always a glimmer of hope, regardless of how dire the circumstances may appear. Always remember that no matter where you are in your journey to recovery, the key is to identify and assemble the necessary elements that will allow you to emerge revitalised and whole. Whenever you become stuck or overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to rely on me – I am here to support you wholeheartedly.
EDucation & Training
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DIPLOMA OF ADVERTISING
Ultimo TAFE, Sydney, 2011
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BACHELOR OF ARTS
(sociology and digital cultures)
University of Sydney, Sydney, 2013 – 2017
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Certificate iv in child, youth and family intervention
TAFE SA, Adelaide, 2020-2021
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Clinical placement
Bower Place, Psychology Practice, Adelaide, 2021
